For a long time i strived for people to accept me, to fit and be ‘normal’. Whatever normal is.I thought that without peoples acceptance life would be meaningless and i would hate it. And i won’t often admit this but i was so wrong.
Most people fall into a trap – Welcome to modern society where you can be yourself as long as you are who what society wants you to be. You can date whoever you want as long as society says it’s okay. You can do what you want as long as it’s something society agrees with.
The scariest part? we are society.
Recently i realized you don’t need people acceptance. You don’t need to be what society wants you to be. You can do what you want and either they will accept it or they won’t but it doesn’t matter. Every single person is perfect the way they are. Yes they will have insecurities, yes they will have things they want to change about themselves but they will also have things which they like about themselves which is really what they should focus on.
You’re brilliant no matter what people say!